Life....

So some of my friends have told me that I give great advise and that I should be a counsellor for a profession. Whatever the problem, I will sit, listen, be a shoulder to cry on and give you some honest advice! Not matter how much you may not want to here it.

I find myself tonight talking to my sister about life choices. She is 19 and currently on her last year of college and works part time. She is leaving college in the summer and where she works, want her to work full time. She is still unsure if she is going to go to uni and is thinking about taking a gap year but still wants to work part time.

Now I am a great believer in giving people advise but I will always mention that I can keep giving you advise but you are the only person who can follow it though. You can tell ANYONE to do something but at the end of the day, they are the only person who is going to PHYSICALLY do it.

Now me and my sister have had this conversation before but yet I find myself telling her the same thing. Unfortunately for her she is looking for someone to TELL her what to do, and this is not in my nature. I will always give someone my opinion but it will always be their choice.

This is where me and my sister are completely different. She is quite and shy and likes things she knows. Where I love to try news things and something unknown somewhat excites me.

My question is really, how do you deal with everyday life decision?

I can say that I find most life decision quite simple. I know what I want in life and I will always do my research to find how to get it. If I don't want to do something or it is making me unhappy then I will do something to change it. My decisions may not always be correct but I will grow wiser from every bad choice I have made.Where as my sister would rather wait for it too land on her lap and not learn from her mistakes! I'm not trying to patronise her but I just wish she would believe in herself and take the plunge into the sea! Its a big world out their and I don't think she realises the possibilities.

This is a blog to my sister and anyone else who feels they cannot make life decisions, that their is someone in this world going through the same thing and you should never be afraid of something that cannot hurt you. Making a decision of what uni to go to or weather to work full time are the simple questions you will stumble upon in life, you will come across harder questions. So always be prepared for the unexpected.

Basically, don't be afraid and be proud of yourself and the decisions you make no matter what anyone thinks.

Love Lolly xx